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mmLearn.org - Where caregivers go for help!

  
  
  
mmlearn.org: where caregivers go for help


It’s exciting to see the amazing growth in the senior living industry and the constantly evolving levels of care available to senior residents. However, about 90 percent of seniors in America still live at home and most of those must receive care from family members for much of their daily needs. As professionals serving seniors first, I think we all want to know that all seniors are getting the best care they can, wherever they are. That compassionate kind of thinking really defines our industry in a special way.

Even when home health professionals are involved, and have come and gone, there are still many aspects of senior care involved. Delivering that care effectively still requires expert instruction. Ideally it should be free and available 24/7. To that end, mmLearn.org at Morningside Ministries provides caregivers with access to web-based training videos on a variety of topics.


The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Caregiving is hard - mmLearn.org can help!

  
  
  
frustrated daughter and parents

As a young child I have vivid memories of my grandmother who had been paralyzed from a stroke sitting up in her bed and digging in her little coin purse to give us money for the ice cream vendor as he made the rounds in our neighborhood.  My mother was the youngest of five siblings and had taken on the role of caregiver.  My older brothers and me thought it was great especially whenever we were in trouble, her bed was a great hiding place and she forgave all our antics with a kiss and a few pennies for ice cream!  Throughout her life mom not only cared for her mother, but her father-in-law, an uncle and an elderly neighbor; yet she never considered herself a caregiver, that was just what families did for one another. 

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Forgiveness at the End of Life: A Timely Forgiveness

  
  
  
Give Forgiveness

A good friend who is a hospice chaplain has shared how difficult it is to be at the bedside of someone who is at the end of their life and to have the family in complete isolation from one another. We’ve all heard the stories of siblings, parents, partners or others bickering and inflicting blame on one another due to past disagreements regarding relationships, finances, property or any number of reasons. What the chaplain finds most disconcerting is the lack of regard for the person approaching death, and the inability to allow for forgiveness especially at a time when there should be a softening of the heart. Unfortunately many times emotions and memories are often choked by the struggles and resentments of the past.

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Caring for the Caregiver!

  
  
  
be kind to yourself

My dear friend, Vivian, has been caring for her father for nearly fifteen years now. Recently her father had a tragic fall that left him with severe injuries. Vivian continues alongside her father in what may well be the remaining days of his life. As a good friend and fellow caregiver of my own mother, I want to support her but also feel the grip of fear that I may be in her shoes someday soon.

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Caregiving: Grokking Your Way to Caring

  
  
  
Grokking edited

We often hear that one way to keep our brains sharp is to learn new skills.  Learning new words and their meaning certainly falls in that category.  The word “Grok” was actually coined by Robert A. Heiniein for his 1961 science-fiction novel, Stranger in a Strange Land.  The Oxford English Dictionary defines to grok as “to understand intuitively or by empathy; to establish rapport with” and “to empathize or communicate sympathetically (with); also, to experience enjoyment”.  Now that undoubtedly sounds like family caregiving!

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Behavioral Management in Dementia

  
  
  
holding handsedited

A diagnosis of dementia is difficult enough for families to accept especially when it affects a beloved parent or grandparent. Adding behavioral issues to the mix and a tense situation can become explosive. It’s almost incomprehensible to believe that someone you may have known your entire life to be a kind, mild mannered, gentle person can suddenly become aggressive and combative towards their own family or others trying to help them. Behavioral disturbances in dementia are such that can place the person with the disease or others at risk and additionally can make it extremely difficult for the caregiver.

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Dental Care and the Elderly

  
  
  
dental instruments2

As a teenager in high school I remember the coach, a relatively young man at the time, pulling out his dentures as a way of getting our attention.  We all giggled at his toothless grin, as he cautioned us about caring for our teeth since he had lost his due to a football injury. Yet it wasn’t until my mom, who was in her 50’s, had to have dentures to replace her much decayed and diseased teeth that the importance of good dental hygiene became abundantly clear. Up until that point we only made dental visits if we were in severe pain due to a toothache.  With many other high priority issues of feeding and caring for a large family, preventative dental care was not on the top of our to-do lists.

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Caregivers: The Hidden Victims?

  
  
  
dontforgetyouarehuman

There is certainly a new awareness in our communities about caregivers. Recently there was an advertisement on the internet promoting greeting cards to send to caregivers and the front of one card read: “Caregivers are often the casualties, the hidden victims. No one sees the sacrifices they make.” Much like other social issues that have come to light over the last few decades, caregiving of older adults is reaching a higher level of prominence, especially with the growing statistics of boomers needing care. The two words that stood out in the message on the card were “casualties” and “victims” – perhaps because they make caregiving sound like a war zone. Is that what caring for our elderly parents or spouses has become? 

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

6 Tips For Preventing Social Isolation for Seniors

  
  
  
lady looking out windwo

The kids walked by her apartment twice a day. She sat by the window every morning watching; remembering and sometimes wishing they might stop by some day. Every afternoon they would parade down the sidewalk again and every once in a while one of them would glance over to the window where she sat and perhaps offer a slight smile or wave. The kids never really thought much about the old woman in apartment 21; they just strolled by. 

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

Caregiving: Mom Needs Tissues!

  
  
  
The're Your Parents Too!

“Dottie, mom needs tissues” – that’s all her brother Jim said, but it was enough to take her over the breaking point!  After calming down, Dottie wondered why this simple phone call from her brother almost brought her to tears. It wasn’t the request from her brother; it wasn’t even the idea that Jim could have very easily requested the box of tissues from the clerk at the nursing home where her mother had been living now for several years. It was the realization that she had now now become "the caregiver" - the one that everyone else relied on to make sure her 95 year old mother was properly cared for. With several other siblings in the picture, nevertheless it was Dottie who took on the responsibilities of checking on her mom almost daily making sure she was eating, scheduling meetings with the doctors, nurses and social workers.  It was a role that weighed heavily on her.

The mission of mmLearn.org is to provide caregivers with online training and education that improve the quality of care received by older adults.

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